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Catch her eye. Your profile must be outstanding. How you will do that, is your choice. Everybody can write: Male, Scorpio, looking for an attractive, etc., however, you better express your own personality, invent something, which will bring attention to your profile.

Skip the details for later! Your personal description must be concise. So try not to waste the allocated for profile space on little details, give only key features of your personality, your interests and desires. If she will find you interesting (and this is one of the main purposes of your profile: to intrigue her), she will ask you about color of your eyes, size of your shoes and everything else that she might feel interesting to know about you. So save the details for her future inquiries.

Address her right. Address her directly as you, your, i.e. by all means avoid writing in third person. If you write (for example): “I am looking for a single woman, with sense of humor, who appreciates order in her life, but for the same time can find a joy in being caught under summer rain,” then she, even if this description fits her perfectly, most likely will pass it by, because, she will feel that this message is addressed to somebody else. Better to write something: “You are kind, cheerful, and passionate. You like to have an order in your life, but sometimes you can get yourself completely and carelessly wet under a warm summer rain.” Although both examples are very close in content, it is much likely that she will recognize herself in your words of the last example, and so you will get much better attention from her and, therefore, more chances for success.

Make her smile. You are not writing this profile for job promotion, so any joke, humor, trick will do you only good. If you have a good sense of humor, make sure that she would know about it from the start.

Give her some mystery. With every word you wrote just remember: you are writing to a woman. If she will not find any mystery in you, it is bad, because she will look for someone else who will give her that chance. Men without mystery are boring, so you dont want to be among them, you are working on outstanding profile, you want to be above your competition! Make your story half-told, leave blanks, let her to fill gaps with her own imagination, and then she will wink or write to you. The purpose of your profile is to attract attention, you will get it!

Be careful in your exclusion list. You should not be offering your friendship to anybody, but being too picky may hurt your chances of finding a good match. Of course, the majority of men want to exclude from their dating list everyone who is ugly, mean or stupid, but, be careful when you are setting these limits: keep in mind that 80% of women (including super-attractive ones) are displeased with their own constitution, appearance and intellect. Besides, ultra discreetness may repel a good match because she may think that you are seeking a model under influence of some inferiority complex (not good for you). Since turn-offs are often listed in the heading of your profile, if disappointed, she may not even look into anything else about you.

Watch your language. I am not talking about the choice of your words, I am talking about observing the grammar. You can write that you are very successful in your business, that you are dreaming to fill your mansion in Palm Beach Gardens with kids and pets, but you cannot do this alone, etc. Make just two grammar mistakes and your chances to find someone will dwindle substantially. She will not buy it, no matter how “sensear is your writting”.

Restrain from any physical bravado. Unless you are seeking a brief date for tonight, you better keep any physical notions off your profile. Even if one can make it ten times over night, one should not hurry to tell this to the world, it just sounds silly.

Truth and truth only! You dont want to lie, because lie will be revealed sooner or later. It is just not smart to risk a potentially great relationship with some lie. Be honest in your profile and with your photos, and you will be rewarded.

Brevity as virtue. True, so my tips are close to conclusion. A few final comments, though. Avoid any abbreviations and omissions in your profile. This is not a classified ad (even if you may feel this way), so you will be given enough space for expressing yourself. For the same time your reader, a woman, your potential date will not be interested in even chatting with you, if she will see untidy, half-baked profile. If she will notice some deficiency of attention in your own personal profile, be assured, she will conclude that this would be as well the degree of your attention to her. This is not good. Make your profile neat and concise, and you will get a plenty of winks. Good luck.

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